Saturday, November 22, 2008

November 20, 2008 - The Day of the Meteorite

So, two days ago I experienced one of the most memorable birthdays of my life. In some good ways and some....well....not as good!

I went into work and got spoiled rotten - flowers, chocolates, well-wishes all day long. It was all going well, and then I talked with my sister. You see, I had received a YouTube a few days ago that was a short film of a guy turning the pages of the foreclosure listings for Wayne County, Michigan, in the Detroit Free Press. There were....are you sitting down, reader....136 pages of foreclosures. Unbelievable.

I asked my sister if that was true. And she said she thought so, yes. So, I asked her how she experienced this personally. And she told me her subdivision has a lot of empty houses with foreclosure signs in front of them. I asked them where these people now lived. She said many people are living in their cars or RVs. The police are very busy in Detroit, I am guessing.

What other ways is she experiencing the economic downturn? She said that restaurants are closing, the retailers are desperate, there are too many cars for the car lots - no place to store the excess, neighbors are getting laid off or hours and/or salaries cut. Food prices are soaring.

I hung up the phone with Jackie, and sat staring at the computer screen for a few moments.... and the tears came. A huge wave of sadness overwhelmed me right then. All these people thinking there would be no end to the good times for years....and now this. Who knows? It might have happened to me if I was there still. It is so easy to overextend. When everyone else is going to lunch, it is hard to say no, isn't it? When everyone else is planning trips to warmer climates, it is hard to say no, isn't it? For me, it isn't the warmer climates or the trip the matters, but I do feel a need to have shared experiences with people I enjoy. That does not justify the behavior any better, though, does it.

When I came to Edmonton, I felt more at home. It was not the mad rush that I experienced in the Detroit area. But over the past few years, it has sneaked in here, too. I recently spoke with a new friend of mine who is working with young adults, teaching them how to handle money, through a study that Dave Ramsey in the U.S. has put together. She has numerous examples of young adults who are not exercising good financial practices, either because they haven't been taught, or they haven't learned. But there are so many people here now who are overextended. And the pressure continues....

A friend of mine, who is a single mom struggling to make it on a receptionist's salary, has a 9 year old son who would like an IPod for Christmas. They are priced at about $400. There are people who actually think she should get him the IPod, when it should be seen as "living beyond your means." Period. End of discussion. When did it become sad if you can't have an IPod??? Man, we are really, really poisoned.

Anyway, back to the birthday experience.....

I was feeling quite....well....out of sorts, a bit apprehensive, sad even, as I took off to meet friends at the movie theatre to see "Madagascar". I was nearly there, sitting at a red light at St. Albert Trail and 137 Avenue, when suddenly it was daylight for 2 or 3 seconds...and as I looked up there was a ball of fire that appeared to go up and then down. I would have guessed that the ball of fire fizzled out and dropped within a quarter mile. I thought, "What was that? Must have been an explosion of some sort." But I couldn't make sense of it. I thought further, "What in the world is going on today?" Then I started thinking bigger. What if that was a chemical explosion or nuclear? I wondered how long it would be before the poisoned gas would reach me if so. And bigger yet... I wondered if all of a sudden one day, darkness will turn into daylight, and the Lord will be before me. Will it be like that? Will I be sitting at a stop light and all of a sudden, daylight all around? Was I ready?

Ahhhhh....am I ready for that today?

Anyway, I was really quite disconcerted as I went into the movie theatre moments later, hoping I would hear later it was some firework or some minor explosion. Connie was there and it was good just to see a friend at this point. A group of us watched Madagascar - it was a relief to watch good clean comic fun.

This is my second most memorable birthday in my life. The day the meteorite streaked across the prairie skies, turning darkness into daylight along the way.

Of all the videos of the meteorite videos out there, this is the one that is like what I saw:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSL3b6bCR7s

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